A relationship well entered and well enjoyed can never have anything compared with it.And a relationship wrongfully entered is more like hell on earth.
I believe in the power and joy of relationship cos we are all humans and we need that connection to survive in this world of ours.

I do have a story to tell about my journey so far in this world most especially in the area of relationship. A story that few of my friends know about, a story that am sure will reveal what young men like me have to go through for the sake of making a relationship work. I'll try not to bore you with my story i only want to pour my heart out based on what i went through in this "Ship" called Relationship. But for now am not going to dwell on my past and all i went through in fixing the "ship". I just want to concentrate on the discovery of my TREASURE, my JOY (Ayo), my GIFT (Ebun) and my LOVE (Ife). I've always known her but from afar and even though i've had times of speaking with her occasionally, nothing really sparked between us not until now.

I have a Mentor that am proud of and he's more than just a mentor he's also my Pastor and Friend (Pst Joe Ogbe). I have no doubt of his love towards me even though he placed a ban on me not to go into any relationship until after SIX (6) MONTH (kai). As ridiculous as that my sound i know it was the right thing i deserve. The ban was not to reprimand me or something, but for the fact that i need to heal up from any hurts the relationship might have caused me, evaluate the relationship to see where i went wrong and then work on myself to become a better person before thinking or attempting any relationship again.

We all need-real-friends in our lives cos they help to see what we can't easily notice. And in the multitude of counsellors there's safety. My friends did counsel me about somethings in my previous relationship, somethng they could see that i could not. But i plunge ahead and landed badly on my face...arh...its an experience i won't wish for my worst enemy. I got to know what it means and feel to be traumatised in a relationship, what it means to show love and not get it back, what it feels to trust and have that trust dashed...hmmm...anyways all that is in the past now and i've buried them all in the past and my faults too cos i know i showed some excesses which i know i can justify, but that will look more like am portraying myself as a saint i know i have my fault big time. But is loving someone too much an offence??? (not obssession o) That i'll leave for now.

Our lives is more like a script and even though God has written how our life will be lived, we still have some form of control called Choice. The page i found myself requires me making a choice about whom to marry. After my six month elapsed, i used the 7th month for searching and praying and then i know out of all the ladies in Lagos Nigeria am only entitled to marry only one and that was really a task cos i have lots of female friends around me especially cos of the fact that am a leader in a Youth ministry i belong to, but eventually a choice was made and a lot of my friends never expected my choice was going to be BUSAYO REBECCA ODUMADE. Having her in my life is a Blessing. I told her recently in one of the "hundreds" of tex messages i've sent to her (she has sent me "thousand" tex messages in return) that i feel complete having her in my life. She's the missing rib that is now replaced bcos she's close by.

Communication rightly sent and received will give life to any relationship. Having her in my life is like an Elixir that i can't stop drinking from. Am elated to have her as she also is. And we both fully know that if anything is working is because someone is working it and we've decided to work it out. Above all we have placed God as the foundation of the relationship knowing well that without him we can of ourself do nothing.